Dont miss the prime opportunities that occur each day to teach your children about Christ!
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As we seek to discipline our children biblically, we find
that opportunities occur throughout the day to speak to our children about the
Lord. We should seize these opportunities enthusiastically. Deuteronomy 6:4-9
is a key passage of scripture for godly parenting.
We should try to weave the Lord Jesus into as many parts of
our childrens days as we possibly can.
Men and women who desire to honor God as they discipline
their children should study these verses carefully,
And these words that I am commanding you today, shall be on
your heart, and you shall teach them diligently to your sons, [and daughters]
and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way
and when you lie down and when you rise up.
Efforts to teach our children the truths of Gods Word should
permeate every aspect of our family life. We must seize the natural teaching
opportunities that these verses describe, as they occur throughout the course
of the day.
God is pleased when children obey their parents.
The second deception that people often believe about
parenting is that parents should never challenge the will of a child. The
biblical truth, conversely, is that a childs will, must be subjected to his or
her parents will. The fifth commandment promises a reward for children who
obey their parents: Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be
prolonged. We read in Proverbs 6:23,
For these commands are a lamp, this teaching is a light, and
the corrections of discipline are the way to life.
Parents should understand that they must earn the right
to be heard by their children. Parents accomplish this by living consistent
Christian lives before them. They must not attempt to teach their children
biblical principles unless they have made a commitment to live by them as well.
Telling our children, Do as I say and not as I do, is an
unbiblical parenting technique.
Many of us grew up with the verbal admonition, Do as I say,
not as I do. This, however, is an unscriptural method of child training. God
calls mothers and fathers to be godly role models to their children of
obedience to the Lord.
According to 2 Corinthians 3:2, we are living epistles.
Our children are reading our lives. It is foolish to think that our children
will respect our Christian testimonies if we are merely talking the talk. We
should always be mindful of the truth that Christianity is more caught than
taught. We must strive to walk in a manner worthy of our high calling in
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